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Posted: Feb 1, 2018

February Newsletter

Category: General

February 1, 2018


Dear Silverthorne Families,

While researching the topic “Love and Alzheimer’s Disease”, I came across the article below. Written by author, Mara Botonis, in honor of the upcoming Valentine’s Day holiday, it speaks to the challenges of loving and connecting to someone despite the progression of dementia.


A Promise to a Loved One with Alzheimer’s

I will always love you. The way I feel about you is based upon all of our experiences, history and all of our memories over the years that make up the unique story of our relationship.

Honestly, it does break my heart that you are unable to remember the ties that bind us as clearly as I do. But, I remember. I know that if you had the power to change things you would too.

I will always love you.

I’m sorry for the times I’m hard on you when you are just trying to connect with me in any way that you can. I promise to recognize the gift of your love that you offer me every day.

When you ask me the same questions over and over, I will remember that part of the reason may just be because you want to talk with me.

When you follow me around the house most of the day, I will remember that it may be because you want to be with me.

When you pace or get agitated and upset, I will remember that part of the reason may be because this is hard on you. It has to be frustrating to want to say and do and remember things that seem just out of reach.

When you look at me, sit by me or give me a smile and nod, I will remember that you are expressing your feelings with all the communication tools you still have access to.

I will remember to appreciate and look for everything you can still do and grieve less for what has been lost.

I will remember to accept you and appreciate you for who you are right here, today and tomorrow and not always compare you to the memories of you that I hold so dear.

I will remember that there are new and equally precious memories to be made right here, right now.

I will look for your love not in words, but in the way you depend on me because you feel safe with me. I will look for your love not in tangible gifts but in the touch of your hand. I will recognize the love you offer me in your desire to be near me, your wish to talk with me and in the way you search my face for answers to your unasked questions.

I will always love you and I recognize now that despite this devastating disease, you will always love me too and I promise to better honor the way you that show me how you feel.

I promise to better appreciate the gifts you give me every day, I know you are giving to me everything that you now have to offer. Thank you.

I will always love you.


I hope you all celebrate the gift of love this Valentine’s day.  Despite the frigid weather we were able to get out a few times this past month, although we did have to cancel our trip to the fire station.    We took some of the guys back to the Bass Pro Shop – always a fun time!  We also had quite a few musicians in to entertain us including the students from Salem High who came in to sing the songs from their upcoming performance- the Sound of Music.  If you have the opportunity this weekend check them out.  Tickets are available through

Occasionally, we receive donations of flowers that our members arrange to decorate our space and to bring home.  If you have some tall, thin vases gathering dust we would be happy to take those off your hands!  As always, we appreciate your donations of automatic dishwashing powder, laundry detergent and dryer sheets, clumping cat litter, Lysol wipes and spray.


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